双语｜Why do some people not find a partner 为啥找不着对象？

Why do some people not find a partner to love no matter how much they would like to?

为什么有些人不管有多想都找不到爱的伴侣？

Because they don’t aren’t in the right places and circumstances to meet them.

因为他们没有在合适的场合和环境中彼此相遇。

Believe it or not, most people are alone because they are busy sitting home alone and being depressed while their perfect partner is also sitting home alone being depressed. It’s a vicious cycle that ends up in a death spiral of opportunity.

甭管你信不信，大多数人选择一个人呆着，是因为他们沉溺于在家独处和阴郁之中，恰好他们那完美的另一半也是这个状态。这是一个恶性循环，最终会导致机会急剧丧失。

It may seem stupid to have to point out that the perfect person isn’t just going to knock on your door and see if you’re home. You have to put yourself in the path of opportunity and so does the other person. It’s really pretty sad. Your perfect person is out there somewhere and even if you are out in the real world open to an opportunity if they are sitting home then you all will never meet.

必须指出，你未来的另一半不会敲门看你是否在家，想想就很蠢。您必须给自己铺就机会之路，其他人也应如此。让人伤感的是即使你活在现实中，而如果他们却坐在家里，那么你们也将永远不会见面。

So, even if you don’t feel like getting out there, get out there. Dinners, clubs, concerts, festivals, parties, museums, libraries, shopping centers, grocery stores, lots of places. Just get out there.

因此，即使您不想离开那里，也要离开。出去晚餐，参加俱乐部，听音乐会，节日，聚会，博物馆，图书馆，购物中心，杂货店，很多地方都可以去。

emmmm……确实很好的建议